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Imagine a child praised endlessly for being smart or naturally talented. It seems encouraging, doesn't it? But here's the catch. Praise education when misapplied can do more harm than good.
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When children are rewarded solely for their innate abilities, they often fear failure, believe in mistakes, expose a lack for worth. Instead of fostering resilience, we create perfectionists terrified to try. Over time, this can lead to low self-esteem, reduced motivation, and an aversion to challenges. The result? A generation that values approval over growth.
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True empowerment comes from praising effort, persistence, and problem-solving, not just results. It's the difference between telling a child, "You are so smart, and you worked really hard on this." The latter nurtures grit, confidence, and a lifelong love of learning.
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So let's rethink how we praise. Let's build children who aren't afraid to fail because they know that effort, not perfection, is the true path to success.
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死穴：极大低估了练习时需要重复的次数。
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Consensus: https://consensus.app/
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SciSpace: https://typeset.io/
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有那功夫，我还不如 _____ 呢！
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With that time and effort, I might well (do something) instead.
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我们太差了，只是因为我们重复的真的太少太少了…
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